How do you show you care but not come across as preachy? On one part, it's the other person's attitude towards me and what he thinks of me. On the other part, it may come across that way due to my choice of words or tone of voice. If they were only a bit more like me... rightly or wrongly, i do make all effort to give the other person the benefit of the doubt, or try to think of who she is and take whatever that comes as well-intended so in turn, should be received positively, even if it didn't come across kindly.

It hurts when the ppl dearest to you shut you out... but love not given freely is not love as it should be. Well, i'm learning slowly how to love the sinner but not the sin, how to love when she doesnt respond, how to overcome evil with good,.. Don't know why i do it - i'll be thinking of things to do for them to show our love for them, but i can't do it myself personally. can imagine big daddy walking beside me and talking to me and tellling me what to do and where to go... and if yet i ignore him and what he says... he'll still be walking beside me and keep whispering to me... So i tell myself to do likewise, be there still... i love you, big daddy!